It’s the Holly-Days! You know, that time of year when Karrie & I crawl out of the cave of blogging hiberation (in sweatpants, with bed head) to sling around some of our favorite things – partly as ideas for you guys (!) and partly as ideas for our loved ones. Every year we do this feels more and more ridiculous, because we’re old as dirt and don’t need a ^$#% thing. That said – this year, I’m keeping in step with tradition and putting forth a list that is about 3 parts pipe dream (aka totally ridiculous) and 1 part sane. Happy Shopping!
A &^$% HOUSE
Remember that phone booth thing on game shows in the 80’s they’d put people in, then turn the blower on and make you try to grab as much stuff as you can in 20 seconds? Trying to make a real estate decision where we live – in an ever-escalating, ridiculous market that’s getting away from us faster than our little brains can move to figure out what we wanna do – welp, it feels a lot like that. Whoopsie! We’ll get there. SANTA ARE YOU LISTENING?? Image via Martha Stewart.
FENDI SUNNIES
Well if these aren’t the raddest things I’ve ever seen. Can’t find the bastards anywhere.
STACKERS, BABY.
Just like everything in a house, I feel like jewelry is best when it’s collected over time.
SEE-ALL LEATHER TRIMMED CANVAS CASE
Net-a-Porter, $95. Cuz I’m always on the hunt for classic, hardworking travel pieces. I actually do need this.
NATAN MOSS CUSTOM LAMPS
Through Hollywood at Home, $1550 each. They are stunning, and each one is a work of art. I think they remind me – on some level – of this pottery studio that was in our hometown when I was a kid that my parents and some of my parents’ friends still have pieces from. See man, it always comes back to Muncie.
WREN COAT in MELANGE
Ulla Johnson, $995. If I could pick one designer’s clothes to wear for the rest of my life, it would be hers. This amazing, can’t-wait-for-it-to-go-on-sale-but-it-never-will, has-my-name-all-over-it trench coat is everything.
Amazon (or check your local small biz bookstore – they may have it!), $38. They are my favorite designers. They have no formal training, no rules and no fear. They are brilliant.
LADY or TWIST PIN
Hand + Fire, $30. Because someday soon, I need to graduate from the No. 2 pencil, which is what I use now to tie up my hair.
ALGAE CANDLESTICKS
Carolina Irving & Daughters, price varies. These are so perfect. Carolina Irving is my favorite textile designer (and a close tie with Jasper, Rose Tarlow and Peter Dunham) but anyhoo – she and her two daughters started a tabletop line a few years ago that would wow any guest at your dinner table. Image below via Nickey Kehoe, who sells them through their shop.
PACK OF 10 TAPER CANDLES in FRENCH ROSE or ROSE TAUPE
Etsy, $21.68. Love these and love shopping small. Both of the colors (listed above) I’m gunning for are currently sold out, but there are so many beautiful others. We go through taper candlesticks in this house faster than clean underpants.
MOST BEAUTIFUL SUZANI PILLOW I HAVE EVER SEEN
In someone else’s house, not for $ale. But doesn’t mean I’m not always on the lookout for a textile like it. Image via House Beautiful.
Merry Merry!! Gift Guide for the Home on deck (and maybe Karrie’s too?)
Welp, here’s at least one thing we can all agree on: QUESO IS DELICIOUS. This recipe is from Pinch of Yum – lemme know how it is if you try it before I do, but I’ve had really good luck with her stuff before.
While we’re getting fatter just sitting here looking at stuff, I am taking this Blackberry Thyme Brie en Croute for a spin at our next suppa party. Cheese is never a bad idea.
This Penny Morrison fabric appears to be discontinued, but I’m still lusting after it. Big luscious drapery panels (???) – yes please.
New Favorite Podcast = Wine for Normal People. We binged it recently a few weeks ago with the same fervor as we would a new season of Stranger Things.
Is there anything sweeter than an old golden?? ANYTHING IN THIS WHOLE WORLD?? …OH, GUSSIE! (ps these photos are by Dai Chan – beautiful pics of his pup here).
I just found this pic on my phone when I was on a plane yesterday, bored to tears and deleting old photos, which made me cry when I saw it. It’s my sweet Daddy and Gus. My Dad LOVED Gus… LOVED. You know if you follow me on social media that we are obsessed with and adore little Goose, but man. They are all such little individuals and such people. There will never be another O.G.
Our officiant at our wedding (who is a close friend of Chris’) a few weeks ago spoke about Gus, and the life & marriage lessons we could all take from him for a large part of the ceremony. I think people assumed we fed him the lines, but it was a surprise to both myself and Chris – and there was not ONE DRY EYE IN THE DAMN HOUSE.
photo by Anni Graham
Also had these as our cocktail napkins. I had a lady named Alicia on Etsy make them (she was wonderful) – I sent her a picture of Big Gus and she sketched it out and it was printed on them in copper. My baby boy was there, everywhere – on the napkins, in the sermon, in my heart… everywhere.
Favorite kind of mani – besides the vanilla kind I usually get (Bubble Bath!) is a half-moon mani like this. Makes the grow out easy breezy.
The perfect green! Belongs in my future house somewhere – butler’s pantry, a vanity or a laundry room. Ladurée in Paris.
Really pretty exterior brick & paint combo.
This hexagon mosaic pattern is pretty specific, but man it’s rad. Via Rebecca Atwood’s Insta.
Love this for Fall. Source unknown.
I’m all about staple shoes, and here they are. I can hardly find these anywhere, except maybe on Poshmark or eBay, in a size 4.
I do other peoples’ kitchens for a living, and it may be my most fun room to do, because it’s like a portrait of the homeowner you paint via the combination of finishes, materials, and the way it functions. This one is by Jessica Helgerson (credit: Aaron Leitz Photography for AD), and I audibly gasped when I saw it.
Favorite parts include:
the hand painted floor, which is a big commitment in a space like a kitchen – where doodles can’t easily be un-did – but in this case, I feel like it is what makes the space, but it definitely has a more timeless quality than so many of the patterned floors I’ve seen. The terra cotta color is rich and warm, and becomes a neutral in the space and another layer of texture.
the Rocky Mountain Hardware brass apron-front sink, which I’ve been trying to get into someone’s house since the beginning of time (it was in this doodle back in 2014), and
the Lacanche range.
If I were doing it, I would probably have swapped out the freestanding island for an antique shop counter, like this one from Field & Fort in Santa Barbara:
And I would make room for (I can do this, because this is fantasy land and I’m the mayor) my two favorite Italian 1950’s vintage pendants that I picked up at Hollywood at Home a few years ago – almost identical to these:
Anyhoo. Since now we have the wedding under our belts, it’s about that time to try to settle into a house. We love our (operative word: little) cozy place in Crested Butte, but we’re tinkering with the idea of either building (which is not a speedy process here) or buying a resale that we may have to do some work to (and knowing me / us, nothing will be the way we want it so I’ll have to turn it inside out). Building costs are also bananas in this town… and I would almost equate trying to nail down subcontractors to herding sheep, but that hardly cuts it; it’s probably a little more like trying to nail molasses to the wall. IT’S OK I’LL FIGURE IT OUT. Anyhow, I’ll have to write a separate post soon to share all the fun stuff we wanna do, and then imma hafta figure out how to stretch our budget from stale beer to bubbly champagne so I can include all the highfalutin things we want. But while I’m at it, here’s a wallcovering I die over slash MUST HAVE – via Nicky Kehoe. Looks like William Morris but can’t 100% place it.
Also die over William Morris’ Pimpernel in Fig / Sisal. It’s elegant, it reads old world and timeless but can also read modern, depending on what you put it with. And it feels in motion, which I love. The combinations in each colorway are also stunning.
Waiting with baited breath for Carolina Irving’s new release of “Delos.” Spring 2021. Have my hand on the buzzer à la Family Feud to use it on one of my fave clients’ dining chairs or counterstools.
I saw this Royal Cauldon Dinnerware pattern at an antique store on our mini-moon and I stalking it hard trying to collect it.
I could keep hunting that, or just blow my future kids’ college funds on the Oriente Italiano collection, which is so beautiful it’s stupid. I’ll gladly eat trash scraps under a bridge on those plates. jfdlsjfkdsjhakjfhdajkhakjha
How cute is this dress? It almost looks like the maternity version and the inverse of Julia’s dress from the polo match in Pretty Woman.
Also, these pearl studs. OMG I have to post something about Def Leppard or a t-shirt from Goodwill stat before I go straight snooty sorority house meets Golden Girls right in front of your eyes.
Here’s one of my fave new (old) songs:
I pride myself on lots of things, but one of them is sniffing out (get it?) the best candles for every season. I’ve ordered a few brands into the shop (and returned almost all of them) – because sometimes they have a good nose (e.g. when you lift off the lid and sniff them in the store) BUT so many times, then they don’t smell the same (or smell at all) when they burn, which has to the ratio of the actual oil to wax that the candlemaker uses. Anyhoo – one line I kept is NEST, which I carry exclusively in Crested Butte, and also 1 flava-flave from 1 other line. Here are my 4 favorites for this time of year:
1 – Ethics Supply Co, Black Elk Peak, $38. Has a woodsy, cozy, almost spicy scent to it that I think works great during the Fall but also into the holidays.
2 – NEST Holiday, $42 for the regular size, or $68 for the 3-wick. A holiday classic! So good, and the box is gorgeous for gift-giving. I have both sizes in the shop.
3 – Thymes Frasier Fir, price varies per size. Smells like a Christmas tree, but super potent and super delicious. Only one I don’t carry, but the nice lady across the street (Elena / Casa Bella) does.
4 – NEST Moroccan Amber, $42 for the regular size. Kind of a warm, vanilla & amber, fireside, more gender-neutral candle you can burn year-round, but great for the holidays, too. I have been surprised how much I love this one.
Comment on this post or email me at stephanie.m.ballard@gmail.com to order! Or just pop in the shop sometime!
Speaking of the shop – I have made a lot of custom ottomans for it in the past few years, but I’ve never seen an ottoman I’m more obsessed with than THIS one from House of Windsor by Windsor Smith. Even Chris Driscoll lost his mind when he saw it.
Saw and screen shot this ages ago on Sally King Benedict’s Insta Story – cuz that is a BOMB STACK.
How dope is this Bolivian Frasada I picked up at Porch in Summerland (Santa Barbara) during our honeymoon?
Speaking of… I referenced it before, but our 10.22.20 wedding was insane. I-N-S-A-N-E. So magical I don’t have the words to describe it. Will also have to post about that someday soon (lots of pics on Insta and in this highlight), and tell you about everything from mind-bending drama like the time my one-time DJ called Gavin Newsom (as in the Governor of California, on the phone) about my wedding, to mind-blowing wedding cake aka the time we flew in the orange shebert cake from Cru Cafe in Charleston.
We mini-mooned in Santa Barbara & Paso Robles – also must write out recs for those. Also must book trip back ASAP. My, I’m making myself a fat to-do list for a lazy Sunday. Santa Barbara in particular may be tied with San Diego for the places my soul was meant to live.
Here’s one rec for your Thanksgiving Day table: we had a few favorites from Paso, but Adelaida was our fave vineyard, and this is my fave wine for the price point from them. My favorite wine altogether is the 2016 Syrah, but this one is a fraction of the cost, still delicious, but a really good table-drinking wine.
I also totally want to blog (soon) a Registry List with our favorite things we got (plus favorite kitchen stuff we already had), and a few tabletop mock-ups, so remind me to do that. All of this (except the silverware, which is vintage – and which we used at the wedding) can be ordered thru yours truly. What I love about this set-up is how versatile it is. I have a few vintage and/or colorful tablecloths that all of this plays so nicely with. You could also totally change up the napkins and the glassware depending on the season / what else you have happening chez vous.
PS these were our tabletops at the wedding. CAN YOU EVEN HANDLE IT. Photo by Anni Graham.
The patina on this antique piece in an entryway by Amber Lewis is perfection.
Well friends (!) thanks for letting me brain dump all over you and all over the interwebs on a Sunday afternoon. Gotsta scoot to do precisely this:
I for sure blabbed about what to blog about next, but what do YOU guys want to hear about?